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Long Lost Sibling: Ostrom Witherell

I’ve been focusing a bit more on my Witherell line than others of late. I mentioned in a previous post a few specific people I wanted to know more about, and one of them is Ostrom Witherell, my 3rd great uncle.

My specific part of the Witherell surname has narrowed considerably over the last few generations. Passing on the surname is now left to my two nephews and my cousin’s son as the last remaining males in my known line. At least, as far as I can confirm anyway. My 4x great-grandfather likely had siblings as well but I haven’t been able to confirm who they are yet. So from my 4x great-grandfather on, that line has became quite small when it comes to carrying on the name. This is why I wanted to find out more about my 3rd great uncle and see if he had children as well.

The search for him has not been easy as he eventually immigrates to Canada and from there, records are harder for me to follow.

The Early Years

Ostrom Curtis Witherell was born 27 March 1885 in Saginaw, Michigan to parents Gard and Lillian (McLeod) Witherell.((Saginaw County, Michigan, Record of Births Book F (1885-1886):58, 1885 entry for Ostrom C. Witheral, record dated 22 June 1926; Saginaw County Clerk’s Office, Saginaw.))

He was the second son for Gard and Lillian and this is one of those cases where I wish the 1890 census existed, as it is the only census where he was enumerated with his complete family. In 1895, his mother, Lillian, died from stricture of the bowels, which sounds absolutely awful.((Saginaw County, Michigan, Death book D (1895-1898): 921, entry for Lily Witherell 1895; Saginaw County Clerk’s Office, Saginaw.))

There was still plenty of family around to help though. In 1900, Ostrom was living with his father, brother, and grandmother.((1900 U.S. Census, Saginaw, Michigan, population schedule, Saginaw City Ward 15, ED 71, page 4A, dwelling 68, family 71, Gard Witherell Household; digital image, Ancestry.com (http://www.ancestry.com : accessed 30 December 2014), citing NARA microfilm publication T623, roll 740.)). At the age of 15, he was already a laborer at a tooth pick factory.

Adult Life

Ostrom did live with his family for a few more years and worked various jobs.((R.L. Polk, compiler, Polk’s Saginaw City Directory (Detroit, Michigan: R.L. Polk & Co., 1901), 873; also subsequent years by the same title: (1902) 924, (1903) 938, (1904) 886.)) However, in 1905, he is no longer listed in the city directories and I cannot find him in the 1910 census.

Gard Witherell (the elder), Ostrom’s father, dies in 1915. Gard’s obituary says that Ostrom was living in Grand Rapids, however, it seems if this was true, it was such a short period of time that no city directory or census caught him there.((“Second Brother Dies in City Park,” Saginaw Courier Herald (Saginaw, Michigan), 2 September 1915, p. 7.)) I am not even sure that Ostrom attended his father’s funeral, or his brother for that matter. Simply because Gard’s pall bearers were all nephews or husbands of his nieces. I found that to be interesting that it wasn’t his sons; however that doesn’t mean they didn’t attend.

Ostrom is a unique name, which means identifying him in records is somewhat easier. In 1918, he filled out his World War 1 draft card in Duluth, Minnesota. His nearest relative on that card was his wife, Pearl Witherell.((“U.S. World War I Draft Registration Cards, 1917-1918,” images, Ancestry.com (http://www.ancestry.com : accessed 30 March 2016), card for Ostrom Curtis Witherell, serial no. 3174, Local Draft Board 3, Duluth, St. Louis County, Minnesota; citing “World War I Selective Service System Draft Registration Cards, 1917-1918,” NARA microfilm M1509, roll 1675463.))

In 1920, Ostrom Witherell was in Hill Lake, Aitkin County, Minnesota with the same wife, Pearl.((1920 U.S. Census, Aitkin County, Minnesota, population schedule, Hill Lake Township, ED 13, page 9A, dwelling 185, family 188, Ostrom Witherell; digital image, Ancestry.com (http://www.ancestry.com : accessed 30 March 2016), citing NARA microfilm publication T625, roll 822.)) He worked as a turner in a paint factory. His wife, Pearl, was born in Wisconsin to French-Canadian parents. I haven’t yet been able to find her maiden name or find marriage information for the two of them. I’ve looked into Michigan, Wisconsin, and Minnesota marriage records for possible matches, but have yet to find anything. I need more identifiers for Pearl and a better range for marriage dates, which could help narrow down possibilities. It’s also possible that they went to Canada to marry seeing as her parents were from there, as was Ostrom’s mother.

By Anastasia Shesterinina (Own work) [CC BY-SA 3.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0) or GFDL (http://www.gnu.org/copyleft/fdl.html)], via Wikimedia Commons

By Anastasia Shesterinina (Own work) [CC BY-SA 3.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0) or GFDL (http://www.gnu.org/copyleft/fdl.html)], via Wikimedia Commons

Death

From 1920 until 1962 I have no idea where Ostrom went. In 1962, Ostrom was in Vancouver and retired. ((Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada Elections Act: Urban Preliminary List of Electors, 1962, stamped 71646:1, Ostrum Witherell; “Canada, Voters Lists, 1935-1980,” image, Ancestry.com (http://www.ancestry.com : accessed 30 March 2016), citing Vancouver Centre, Vancouver, Urban Polling Division No. 88.))

In between 1920 and 1962, his brother, Gard, died in 1952. I happen to have Gard’s funeral visitors list. Much to my surprise, Ostrom is not listed on there. This could be because Ostrom was already in Vancouver, and the travel cost was liekly too much. There wasn’t much of an obituary for Gard, just a note of his death so no other family was mentioned there, which could have been helpful in identifying where Ostrom was at that time. I do wonder if Ostrom even knew of his brother’s death. Did something happen between the brothers? Was there an argument? Did they just not get along? Did they keep in touch?

It was another 16 years after Gard’s death before Ostrom died. He died in Vancouver on 30 May 1965 in what I believe was a home for the elderly (The Taylor Manor in Vancouver). ((British Columbia Archives, Death Registrations, 1872-1986, Ostrom Curtis Witherell, registration no. 68-09-007734 (1968); FHL microfilm 2, 033,943.))

His death certificate does give lots of good information. It gives how long Ostrom had lived in Canada and the Province. Both of which were 50 years, which means he likely moved after the 1920 census. Ostrom also lived in the municipality of Vancouver for the last 20 years. He was a widower at the time of his death and his wife had been Mabel Sheean. Lots of good hints but I haven’t yet found marriage information for Mabel and Ostrom (and whatever happened to Pearl?), nor any other record to indicate where he lived in those 50 years. However, Ostrom was a Canadian citizen, but I’ve not had much luck on finding naturalization records for him (anyone know of some help there?).

Burial

Ostrom was cremated and then interred at Mountain View Cemetery in Vancouver.((Find A Grave, database with images (http://www.findagrave.com : accessed 30 March 2016), memorial 26428692, Ostrom Curtis Witherell, Mountain View Cemetery, Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada.)) I contacted the cemetery to see what further records there could be. I received the saddest reply: his remains were never claimed and were therefore brought to the cemetery for a mass internment with other unclaimed remains and put into a communal grave.

No one came for him. That statement feels so lonely.

Did anyone know? Did my great-grandfather even know his father had a brother? I would like to believe my great-grandfather would have tried his best to have gone to Canada to claim the remains if he did know. Or maybe, if he was aware of his uncle, was there some reason why he wouldn’t have gone to claim the remains? Some deep family wound?

I have no idea.

I’m waiting to hear if the crematorium has more information on him and I’m hoping the Vancouver library can find an obituary for him as well. I am doubtful about that though, considering his internment.

So far, there is no indication that Ostrom had any children, and at the moment, I get the impression that Ostrom lost complete touch with his family in Michigan. I haven’t finished researching his story and I’m hopeful to find some silver lining with more research. Stay tuned!

Mystery Monday: DNA Connection – But Where?

I shared a while ago about my grandparents getting their DNA tested for me and that I had been impatiently waiting for results. Those results had actually finished quite some time ago and I’ve been slowly learning and playing with the results. I haven’t done enough to merit a blog post… yet.

My chromosome browser with my maternal grandparents selected

My chromosome browser with my maternal grandparents selected – It isn’t surprising that I share more segments with my grandmother; I definitely take after her 🙂

 

I do make sure to always answer emails about possible connections (something I have heard isn’t done as often as others would like). One thing immensely neat about having my grandparents DNA is that I can begin to narrow down connections as well!

To explain, I was emailed by someone, we’ll call him John Doe for the moment, saying that we have a 3rd-5th cousin match, which he is hoping may be able to solve some brick walls for him. So, to see what side he is related to, either my dad’s or my mom’s, I can now check to see if he is related to either of my grandparents – and he is! To my grandfather specifically; and he’s listed as being a 2nd-4th cousin. Nice, right? Which means that John Doe and I are probably 4-5th cousins, so we have a 3x or 4x great-grandparent in common.

I LOVE that I can do that now!

John Doe happens to be looking for a very specific geographic location – Canada. The lineage he is going after happens to be French Canadian. This is also excellent because my grandfather’s paternal line  and my grandfather’s maternal grandfather all came over from central Europe; making it much easier to pinpoint what family we may be connected with.

With that, I have it narrowed down a bit. My 4th great-grandmother came from Montreal. Her name is Ellen (Belgard) LaValley. Her parents are Joseph and Sophia (Levereaux ) Belgard – all French Canadian.

So, I may have found the connection. Now comes the mystery – how are the two families connected?

At the moment, he is making a tree with his information, and I’m doing the same with my information and we are hoping to meet somewhere in the middle. And so far… we haven’t.

Of course, there’s always the possibility that I’m chasing down the wrong lineage. There is my 4th great-grandmother, Martha (Dean) Pape, whom I can’t yet confirm her parents names, and therefore can’t say for sure that her lineage is not French Canadian.

The line could also come from the LaValley’s, whom I only have as far as Joseph, Ellen Belgard’s husband, who came from New York but whose family could also be from Canada.

So many choices! Just think if I couldn’t have narrowed it down as much as I had! A moral of this story – get your family members tested! And as far back as you possibly can!

I did hear that my 2nd great-aunt is still alive (sister to my great-grandmother – and connected to the line I’m currently chasing), but I’ve never met her and I think it may not go well if I showed up and asked her to spit in a tube… 🙂

 

Stay tuned for more on this mystery! It has become my research focus for September!

 

 

Mystery Monday: Mary Witherell Hay Owen

Many years ago, when I began my search for my ancestry, I had one focus: Witherell. There were a variety of reasons for this:

  • It’s my maiden name
  • The origin stories and others made me very curious to know the truth: the name is Scottish; the name is British; the name came from the border of Scotland and England; they were sheepherders; someone was killed for stealing a horse, etc.
  • Mary Witherell Hay Owen – the woman who really started it all for me. While wandering a cemetery, I saw her grave and was astounded she had my maiden name. Where did it come from?

Mary Witherell Hay Owen may have started my beginnings in genealogy, however, I never finished looking into her.

I was in college at the time when I was earnestly researching her so my research was sporadic at best. However, I had help from the wonderful librarians in my hometown as they were just as interested in this project as I was. They told me many things that I didn’t really look into much at the time but will prove useful as I search for her now:

  • Her father, James Hay, was a wealthy Scottish lumberman in Saginaw, Michigan. He was the president of the Tittabawassee Boom Company and in 1859 went into business with Ezra Rust – who is a big name in Saginaw (there’s a park and street named after him).((History of Saginaw County Michigan; Together with Sketches of its Cities, Villages, and Townships, Educational, Religious, Civil, Military, and Political History; Portraits of Prominent Persons, and Biographies of Representative Citizens (Chicago: Chas. C. Chapman & Co., 1881), 666 and 695.))
  • Mary married Edward Owen in 1889 – I did find the records to prove that. She was 22 at the time and Edward was 26. ((Michigan, Marriage Records, 1867-1952, vol.3:176, record number 1467, Edward Owen-Mary W Hay, 15 Oct 1889; image, “Michigan, Marriage Records 1867-1952,” Ancestry.com (http://www.ancestry.com : accessed 6 July 2015); citing Michigan Department of Community Health, Division for Vital Records and Health Statistics.))  Edward Owen’s father, John G, was also involved with lumber and salt works in Saginaw. ((History of Saginaw County Michigan; Together with Sketches of its Cities, Villages, and Townships, Educational, Religious, Civil, Military, and Political History; Portraits of Prominent Persons, and Biographies of Representative Citizens (Chicago: Chas. C. Chapman & Co., 1881), 575.))
  • She was a lumber baroness – Although I can see where that might be true, after all both her father and father-in-law were in the business, I haven’t found anything to support that fact that her or her husband were involved in the business while she was alive. (If there was only the 1890 census, part of this question could be answered!)
  • The Hay family had connections with the prominent Witherell’s of DetroitJames Witherell was a Judge of the Supreme Court for the Territory of Michigan and his son, Benjamin Franklin Hawkins Witherell was also a jurist in the U.S. State of Michigan and a justice on the Michigan Supreme Court. Now this may prove to be true – Mary’s mother’s maiden name is Hawkins as well. ((Michigan Marriages, 1851-1875, James Hay-Martha E. Hawkins, 13 Dec 1864; database and index, Ancestry.com (http://ancestry.com : accessed 6 July 2015), citing Wayne County, Michigan Marriages, 1851-1869, FHL Film 1377620-1377622.))
  • Mary died in 1896 at the age of 28. Saginaw has an online record of burials that can sometimes include how the person died. In Mary’s case it was phthisis, also known as consumption or tuberculosis.((Public Libraries of Saginaw, “City of Saginaw Cemeteries Search,” database, City of Saginaw Cemeteries (http://cemeteries.saginaw-mi.com : accessed 6 July 2015), entry for Mary Owen, Oakwood Cemetery, Section 14, Lot 113, burial 26 May 1896, Saginaw, Michigan.))

So my main research question from the early 2000’s was: Is she related to me? As far as I could tell at that point, no.  There is a Witherell book that focuses on two progenitors in America: Rev. William Witherell and William Witherell. That book connects the Detroit Witherell’s I mentioned to them but my family is NOT in that book. Maybe I could still be related to one of those two progenitors, but my research showed no connection. Because of that missed connection, I stopped researching her all those years ago. side note: I have gone further back in my Witherell line since then, but the names are still not in that book.

I am picking this ‘mystery’ back up again! I doubt it is a real mystery since I have quite a bit of information on her from before that will likely lead to a lot more. When I first started looking into this woman, I really had no idea where to go or what I was doing! I’ve learned quite a bit since that time so it’ll be fun to see what I can find out now.

Stay tuned!

 

By Jenney, J. A. (James A.) -- Photographer [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

By Jenney, J. A. (James A.) — Photographer [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

Book Review and Give-Away: Dear Mother, Love Daddy

Full Disclosure: The author sent me a copy of her book to review on my blog.

Dear Mother Love Daddy Image

Dear Mother, Love Daddy: The World War II Letters of Roscoe and Gladys Yegerlehner May 1942-September 1942

I am a fan of anything in genealogy that makes people come to life. Things like diaries, letters, postcards, scrapbooks, even candid photos do just that. They give personality to an ancestor that we only knew from records and they seem rather static and far-away that way. To have something that makes an ancestor’s personality shine is a rare treasure!

Deborah Sweeney holds one of these incredible collections with the letters that her grandparents lovingly wrote to each other during World War II. The two wrote to each other nearly every day while Roscoe Yegerlehner served as a doctor in the Navy. The letters span from his initial station in Chicago, to Virginia, to California, and finally to the South Pacific. I really enjoyed some of the outdated language(that Sweeney kindly translated!) along with some of the medical talk going back and forth in the letters.  Even if you have no connection to the Navy, Indiana, or any of the places where Roscoe ventures, you still find yourself wanting to know more about these two people. I loved the chance to get to know Roscoe and Gladys and their families. Although this family wasn’t a big name in the war, their experiences make them more poignant and more real because they are the everyday, everywhere couple that experienced this war first hand.

These letters may span what seems to be a short time but I still found myself anxiously waiting for when Roscoe would finally write back after he was shipped out. Then, when Gladys finally had their baby, I read a bit more furiously to see how he would respond! Sweeney leaves you with a cliffhanger on that one and now I can’t wait for the second book to come out so I can read his reaction!

These letters really make you appreciate the way technology works today. Today in our world of cell phones, internet, texting, etc. we have a way of connecting nearly instantly. Although those overseas in the military can’t always connect as easily as that, I’ve seen many a video of a husband watching the birth of his child from overseas through the use of technology. Amazing to see how far we’ve come! This wonderful book gives a glimpse of what that would have been like without this technology; it makes it very real how long letters took to get to their destination and one can imagine the anxiety associated with waiting for the next letter.

Overall, this set of letters is a great and quick read! It’s a wonderful glimpse into a world I knew very little about and into a family I now wish to know more about. I can’t wait for the next installment!

GIVEAWAY!

I have two copies of the book that I wish to give away! I am using Viralsweep to help me keep track of everyone who enters. So click on the widget and enter your email address. Please make sure it is a valid email address as that is where I’ll be contacting you if you win! This is for U.S. residents only and you can earn more entries by sharing on some social media sites. So share and have fun! 🙂

This contest will run from today until 1 May at 12am EST. I will announce the winners 1 May around 12:00pm EST.

 

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